Glenn,
There's a name for those "other libertarians outside SF" who say "SF libertarians have a reputation for being a dogmatic, difficult-to-deal with group."
They're called Republicans. Unfortunately, they've gained control of the LP California state party leadership and several county parties.
If you think that insulting SF Libertarians is going to do anything other than strengthen our resolve to act as a bulwark against the further Republicanization of the LP, then you're very mistaken.
I've spoken with the chairs of other large cities' LP organizations, who face similar criticisms, and we all agree that we really know we're doing something right when not-so-recently-former Republicans criticize us as "dogmatic" and "difficult-to-deal with" in our defense of ALL Liberty, both economic and personal (while Republicans are only interested in economic liberty, which is why they sound good at anti-tax "Tea Parties" but become more clearly un-Libertarian as soon as any other topic comes up).
Fortunately, from Ed Clark to David Nolan to Less Antman, we "dogmatic" Libertarians have the backing of those who were running the Party when we had our greatest electoral successes two decades ago. Since the Republicans who have risen to power in the LP have now gotten absolutely everything they asked for (a gutted platform, a Republican Congressman as our Presidential nominee, the removal or impending removal of anyone who isn't a social conservative from from our National and State party committees), and yet still have not improved electoral or fundraising success, their "strategy" is a clear failure. It's just a matter of time before either:
1) the membership of the LP realizes this strategy is a failure, and votes in new leadership at the state and national level, or
2) the LP simply vanishes as totally irrelevant -- the Reform Party had a bigger budget than the LP ever had and went from front page news to oblivion in less than a decade, because they were ideologically hollow.
I'm hoping and working for #1, but I have to admit, after attending the LP California convention in Visalia this past weekend, that I'm thinking the smart money is on #2.
Rob